Have you ever felt limited in love? Have you ever felt that your love is locked away, unable to find a way into the hearts of others? You know you have more love to give but it just doesn’t seem to get to where it is needed. There is a simple reason for that and a simpler solution.
Love is a creative process. It is creation. It unites darkened souls in the light of harmony and joy. Each of us was born to love. It is our inner essence. Enlivened, love flows effortlessly from heart to heart. Restricted, it becomes desiccated, a shriveled memory of what could have been. But what opens our life to the free flow of love and what restricts it?
We humans live in two worlds, one of logic and analysis the other abstract creativity, one of destruction the other of creation. They are both necessary and mutually exclusive. The lysis part of analysis means to breakdown or cut apart. While we are presently analyzing why love is restricted, that analysis cannot give us love. So once we understand what restricts our love we will still need to discover how to let love flow effortlessly into our world.
Abraham Maslow established a hierarchy of needs that told us we could not start loving until our physiological and safety needs were met. Meeting our love and belonging needs and esteem needs means that we can begin loving. This “beginners love” is conditional. Conditional love is subservient to how we feel about ourselves and how others feel about us. But Maslow tells us that we are capable of a much grander love, a universal, unbounded, unconditional love. This love blossoms in what Maslow calls self-actualization.
Another word for Self is Eufeeling. Self-actualization means becoming aware of Eufeeling. Awareness of Eufeeling is the natural and highest human awareness. Self-actualizing individuals who are aware of Eufeeling are at the top of their game. Maslow calls them Transcenders.
Although Transcenders are rare today making up about 0.5-2% of the population they are not abnormal. Quite the contrary, living aware of Eufeeling (QE awareness) is the normal expression of a human being when all our basic needs are met. We are hardwired for self-actualization. We have everything we need right now to live in unconditional love and the transition is so simple, so natural and easy it is amazing that only 2% of us have discovered the secret.
So what is the answer to living unconditional love? Let’s explore that very interesting topic in the second part of this post, Why Can’t I Love? (Part II)
Eufeeling!: The Art of Creating Inner Peace and Outer Prosperity
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Wow, its easy to forget where Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs comes from! I keep asiscoating it with marketing, but this has re-attached it to where it should be our minds. It’s good to have it refreshed in my mind, and to see where I am again! I do like how the presenter uses the hierarchy to point out that its important to remove yourself from the negative influences that prevent yourself from meeting your needs. Although it would generally be difficult for people who are suffering from unfulfilled physiological or safety needs to do that without help. That would be where friends and family come in, but if you can’t even meet your physiological and safety needs, how is it possible to develop the relationships that act as that safety net?I guess that’s where people who have reached the self-actualisation stage come in. People who are healthy, safe, have a safety net and social ties, and are confident are the people who are able to step in, and help those people suffering leave those damaging zones, so that they can start repairing their lives even if they are strangers. I can’t see anyone that is aware of such difficulties wanting to stay like that. But I suppose that raises another issue people in such abusive can be unaware, or unwilling to accept that they are in that situation as they either know nothing else, or are afraid. So I suppose then it becomes a matter of gradual education and time coupled with awareness of both parties and gentle support given to those that need it.(wow this is like an essay )
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